Why is it so hard for people to be honest about their intentions before starting a relationship? Advertisements Share this:TwitterFacebookLike this:Like Loading... Related 8 thoughts on “Why is it so hard for people to be honest about their intentions before starting a relationship?” Add yours Some never know of any intentions In the beginning. Reply Agreed. Reply Some are afraid to tell the truth and some don’t care Reply @coach… Everyone knows thier intentions maybe not at the start but definetly in the beginning…lets get that out thr way…but honesty makes u vulenurable and in our society that is seen as weakness so we all holds on to our cards until its time play or fold… Reply We all know what we want from the start even if we don’t want anything serious with that person. We should at least be honest with the other person and let them know where we stand emotionally. That way even if one gets attached the he/she was warned from the very start. However, most people don’t operate with consideration or honesty because they lack character. Using others for our own benefit or selfish reasons will always back fire. Treat others as you want to be treated with the utmost honesty and respect. Remember that what goes around comes back around. Reply @ortizal23…. I agree that at the start most individuals know what they are looking for in a partner but to be clear it really depends on a cause and effect dynamic.. let me explain Guy goes to club and his plan for the night is to meet a beautiful woman and take her home and have fun well that plan changes if said woman makes him so interested that she takes the upper hand but what seems to happen during that initial conversation she does not pick up on key points in the conversation. Now I am not saying that is right or wrong but it is the reality of how this game is played whether a person wants to admit it or not. The second point that you made i respect but I wholeheartedly disagree with. You said “most people dont operate with consideration or honesty because they lack character”, I believe that it is not a case of honesty or consirderation but really a case of insecurity or feelings verse desire and we can discuss that more in detail but that is just one guys opinion and we all have a level of honesty until its time to go all in or fold…. and by the way the old clishe ” What goes around comes around” doesnt apply to those of us with a conscience…. Reply If she’s amazing, She won’t be easy. If she’s eeasy, She won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, You won’t give up. If you give up,You’er not worthy… Truth is, Everybody is going to hurt you.You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. Reply Well said… But she whether amazing or not has to understand good men have a bit of drama so she has to be able to see the difference between deception and real life… Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google+ account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email.